![]() This has happened to me more than once with relatives and you don't just fill out paperwork and leave. Accident injuries can be very touch and go at the beginning until a person is stabilized. You've obviously never cared about someone enough that in a traumatic situation you wouldn't leave their bedside till you knew things were going to be ok. They were bedside because she didn't know if her parents would pull thru. No one said anything about filling out paperwork. ![]() You can't run to mommy like a child, you have to take care of your own responsibilities, one of which is keeping your emotions under control so you can function.Įdit: He should go on the trip, fly in just ahead of the friends." You can't just be an emotional wreck, but she's selfish, the selfishness begins with her of control emotions, extends to running to her parents without regard for her kids and then telling the kids they're the AH for not being happy about it. One of the parents should have stayed behind and the mom needed to get ahold of herself. The parents are emotionally blackmailing the kid with, "don't your even care about your grandparents?" And he's saying, "don't YOU care about ME?" And they don't, they're so wrapped up in the old people that they can't see that they caused their son to flake on his own obligations and then they called him the AH. Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Upvotes Follow Unfollow 1 month ago (edited) Part of growing up is to let go of this pattern, although some people keep it their entire life and act like this at work, with friends, and especially with family. Unfortunately most parents are just like "boy what's wrong with that kid I have no idea why it is like that". And they double down on it hoping that if the parents have to invest in the problem they might have an realisation. The emotional logic there is "see how I suffer, you did this, don't you see? How much more do I have to suffer until you realise what you do wrong" Children are dependent on their parents, at a young age that's their only chance to make the parents realise. As a child you are more invested into showing your parents what they did wrong and children do that by trying to show the parents what their actions lead to. As a grown up you'd take what you can get. Svg Vector Icons : yes that's a childlike pattern still.Upvotes Follow Unfollow 1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 The son MIGHT have been an a*****e too, depending on story that we were not given, but as described the son should be livid ![]() The assumption, and the fact that he was more or less guilted into it is the issue, the dad was an a*****e. What if they usually don't have the money for trips and this is a huge deal for him. What if one or more of his friends is going to college overseas and he won't see them for years. Should he WANT to help? I think so, but it's not something he OWES anyone. Anyone who thinks it's his DUTY to care about injured family so his parents can do their thing can f**k off. Just because people have a good relationship with their parents and grandparents, doesnt mena he does, second, people deal with grief in different ways, third, if you really want to push the 'injured family should be cared about' angle, his parents are a******s for not including him in the trip to go see the grandparents, I think it's telling that they assumed he wouldn't want to go with tbh. Upvotes Follow Unfollow 3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 ![]()
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